Tuesday, March 31, 2009

ICAB Meeting

Today, we went to ICAB for our exit meeting. (ICAB is the Inter-Country Adoption Board -- the Filipino governmental agency that oversees all international adoptions). It's located in a small office building in a residential area. The person assigned to our case was Kathy de la Cruz. She was a very nice, young lady. She gave us Camille's her passport and Visa papers, Camille can officially travel with us back to the U.S. Here is her passport photo. How cute!

We were also given gifts to help us teach Camille about her Filipino heritage. Very thoughtful gifts, indeed.

We were also blessed by seeing Deborah at ICAB. She was there to find a family for one of the children from her baby home. She also gave us a wonderful album/scrapbook with nice notes written by Camille's caretakers.

During our stay there, Ms. de la Cruz showed us around and explained why there are what seem to be unnecessary delays in the process. She seemed equally frustrated that adoptions to U.S. families take so long. It seems to me that if the U.S. weren't so strict on its end, then ICAB would be more willing to send children to the U.S. But if ICAB has the option of dealing with, say, Norway or Finland, which have much less restrictive adoption procedures, then it will be more inclined to take the faster and less complicated path by sending the child/children to the non-U.S. country.

I found the experience to be quite positive. For the past two years, communicating with ICAB has been difficult, if not impossible. So it was nice to see ICAB "face-t0-face", and to be able to express our opinions about the entire process.

Camille Update: Camille is adapting well. She still prefers her mommy most of the time, and she didn't whine or hit as much today. She is very curious about everything she sees, and she also quite a really good climber. Oh, she's finally eating more than just rice now.

4 comments:

  1. We loved Kathy. She was also our ICAB social worker. It was so fun to finally meet the person who worked so hard to get us to the Philippines to bring Eze home. Seeing what you talked about with her sounds similar to what we talked about with her. Interesting to read it and think about it all again (the slow process for the US). Thanks for sharing!!

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  2. Enjoyed the pictures at ICAB. To think...we were just there a few weeks ago!

    Tammy

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  3. We are Alex and Sharina from San Diego. Both of us have Filipino heritage as well. We have been following your journey with great interest. We adopted our son Jakob from the Philippines last July 31st and are finalizing at Superior Court at the end of the month. Your pictures brought back good memories from the time that we sat on that ICAB bench with our names posted behind us and met with Kathy. Enjoy the rest of your time in Manila and have a safe and uneventful journey home!

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  4. I'm glad to hear that Camille is adapting better day by day. She is a beautiful little girl! It must have been interesting to see how things work at ICAB. I can't wait until we finally get to visit there! Enjoy the rest of your trip.

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